“If you don’t like where you are, move. You are not a tree”
Are you afraid of change? Change makes me nervous. I’m excited – filled with anticipation of what’s to come. I’m also afraid – of the unknown. I don’t know what’s coming so I can’t control it, prepare for it. If I listened to my fears each time change happened I’d be in the same place I was ten years ago. No growth, no new experiences, just same old predictable me.
The good thing about change is you always learn something new, even if it’s unpleasant. It could be a life lesson- like letting go of that wrong “love” or not killing yourself for that self-serving boss. Change also allows you to move on from an unhappy place. If there is something that you don’t like, change it….at least take concrete action to make improvements – spruce up that resume and network, call your sibling and work out your differences …. No one or nothing has absolute control over you. We are free people. So use that privilege to make the right changes; it could mean your happiness and peace.