“Stay away from negative people. They have a problem for every solution”
Have you ever been in such a state of mind that you can’t calm down or think straight? You’re full of anxiety and stress? You can’t rest your mind, sleep through the night, eat healthy – you either over indulge in junk food or not eat at all? Then you decide to talk it out with people who “understand” your situation. In the midst of garnering support you find that you’re more upset and unproductive. Why? Harping on a problem rather than strategically mapping out a plan to address it makes the situation worse, and being fueled by others with negativity prolongs your misery.
I feel a good solution to combating negativity is 1) staying away from more negativity – including people, 2) taking time to breathe and gather yourself – clearing your mind will help you gain a better perspective of the situation, 3) counting your blessings. Show gratitude for the smallest blessing: like breathing.
When you come up with great ideas and you share it with others and you’re not met with excitement, rather discouraging words – all the reasons that you shouldn’t or can’t pursue your dreams, ignore it. Don’t be discouraged by the naysayers. Pursue your goal, go for it. Whether it takes you time to achieve it and you have to revise along the way, or you achieve immediate success, or even if ultimately it does not work out. You’re not a failure. Having ambition and putting in the work itself is success. Now any wins along the way are extra blessings.
Keep going, even if the road seems a bit lonely. You’ve got this!